My introduction is a simple 35 year old woman, a mother and a girl inside. I created this blog to share what I think goes on a woman’s mind, and to humour my readers for a good time. It will all be true stories and experiences, but it will give you a make you laugh. So keep on reading.
Having an only child
Just because your friend group all have two children, you have to have two kids to mingle with your group? Or your kid needs someone else to play with, she/he is alone? They will not learn sharing, and turn out selfish. Puh-lease, let them be selfish, or else they cannot survive in this world now….is. What I would like to say.
My story: I am 36. I have a 4 year old daughter. I don’t want a second child. My reason could be anything, or simply I do not wish for another one. Why does it matter to the world? Listen, it doesn’t. You do not want it, don’t take it. Let people talk. No one knows you better than you. They will make you feel guilty, feel guilty, but do not take actions upon it. It ends in regret. Remember, whatever you decide, and how your life and fate turns out was always meant to be that way. If you have a only kid for the rest of your life, then that is how your life as a mother was planned. Be grateful in what you have. The pain of having no child in incomparable to anything. So rest assure that one is better.
My reason? I am simply happy with one daughter. I got everything in my daughter as I wanted, so I have no reason to take another one. She will be alone? Well, let her be a loner. I will make her strong.
A woman’s diary 